Anorexia…….. The Maudsley Approach.
I never cease to be amazed at the internet and all the information which comes my way via it. Today, I was reading NHS Blog Doctor (a must for any Brit concerned about the state of our health service) and he had a link to an article in the New York Times by Harriet Brown, the mother of an anorexic girl. You can access the article *here (that’s if the NYT will let you – I had to register to access the article, but when I tried a second time it told me I had to pay!).
Anyway, I was very interested to read in there about the Maudsley approach. It was the Maudsley that we attended when our daughter (then a 15-year-old) wasn’t eating (I see that Dr. Christopher Dare who is mentioned in the article and who led the team which worked with us has written a book on the subject, together with other experts). I wote my story in a previous blog MY DAUGHTER. It is interesting to learn that the Maudsley approach is now widely used in other countries as well as the UK. I see there is now a web site for Maudsley Parents.
I repeat what I said before about the Maudsley. Although my husband did not like much about the place, I believed that their basic approach was correct. I hated the horrible room we were in (physically hot, but very cold in atmosphere) and the fact that we were not only being viewed by a room-full of experts in the room next door via a two-way mirror but were being videoed at the same time. It was hard to talk under those circumstances, especially as we were under such stress anyway. Nevertheless, I felt that their basic philosophy was very good.
I wonder if the Maudsley still has the same system for payment, i.e. the patient’s surgery had to pay if the patient attended more than a certain number of times (I think it was 3 times). As I mentiioned in my previous post on this subject, this prompted my (horrible, horrible!) doctor at the time to complain at us for costing the surgery something like £3000 because we attended just long enough to incur the charge and then stopped (we knew nothing about this until our doctor chided us about it). I personally felt very aggrieved about this as I really wanted to carry on going there; but it is very hard to make a 15-year-old go somewhere when she is determined not to!
A few weeks ago I drafted out a post about anorexia which was sadly eaten up by blogger. I was prompted by a post on anorexia on NHS Blog Doctor to go and look at the web site for the UK Eating Disorders Association. They were a great help to me when my daughter had her problems and I bought several books that they recommended. Anorexia & Bulimia Care (a Christian organisation) were very helpful too.
Anyway, when I visited the EDA website I noticed that there wasn’t a lot of advice for parents on there, so I e-mailed them about this. They replied that it is an area that they will be improving on in the near future, but they asked me to let them know the kind of things that I think should be included. I really have no idea how to reply to them and (very naughtily) I still haven’t done so. I feel that my experiences as the parent of an anorexic child are very indivual to myself and my daughter and may not be helpful to anyone else. I must try to draft something out though.
* If you have trouble accessing the NYT article, e-mail me and I will send you a copy.
The music track now playing on my computer is: –
Sisters Of Mercy from The Songs Of Leonard Cohen by Leonard Cohen
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